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  1. Rory

    This comment was submitted by Rory an Anxiety Guru Subscriber.

    Very good list – except the parts regarding medication. I tried a few of them over the years – creates a dependence and doesn’t really “do the job.”

    My own list – that helps me survive my life long anxiety – not for everybody but works for me (I know you won’t approve of the alcohol part of it.)

    1.) Strenuous exercise (min 40 minutes) 6 days per week – maybe 7.

    2.) Prayer/religious activities. Little personal prayers and formal ones, too. Since I have about a gazillion thoughts (mostly negative) in the first hour after I get up – I feel if I can fill up my mind with something else (prayers) that they may very well HELP me and, at worst, are keeping the negative, racing thoughts away.
    Going to evening Mass in my local Gothic cathedral type church is a wonderful way to end the day. Very few people go so I get to have a huge section all to myself. I love it when they don’t have the big lights on and the church is almost dark except for the flickering candles. I can actually begin to relax and speak directly to “the big guy upstairs.”

    3.) Always have the radio or tv on (except when meditating…) it, also, helps keep my mind occupied – I “lock” on to what they are saying so I don’t have to think.

    4.) I do have a beer or two or a cocktail or two at night -just to turn off the racing thoughts. I feel that if I “made it through the day” I deserve some down time to relax and feel like a normal person. It eases the discomfort going over daily bumps.

    5.) Have a daily schedule with many familiar things/personal. I hate change. I like to do the same thing at the same time every day. I know I can’t always do it that way but I prefer it. That’s why I have a love/hate relationship with vacations. I love the planning and the going (except flying – that’s a no-no) and the arrival but after I’m THERE – I start to get stressed out about everything because everything is different! Then when I get back home I get terribly depressed as the vacation never lives up to my crazy anticipation.

    6.) Have hobbies, follow sports, write, take classes, keep busy – clean the house! Watch and go to movies – I see about 10 a week.

    7.) Meditate 40 minutes every day. I count my natural breaths and try to push away thoughts when they arise. I have a “Thoughstream” gadget that monitors my stress level with a little gauge. I, generally, start at the highest level and can work it down to one of the lower ones in that time.

    8.) Get lots of good sleep. I like to go to bed early with all my stuff (xword puzzle, books, radio, computer games.) There is no better feeling than getting into a “warmed up” (by heating pad) pillow top bed and just doing “me” stuff for a few hours. At 11PM I will listen to a local radio program that plays religious chorale music for an hour then I turn out the light and listen to some of my favorite radio programs at midnight til I fall asleep.

    9.) I went to a very good, wonderful hypnotist a few years ago and he made a relaxation tape just for me. I often wake up in the middle of the night and can’t go back to sleep – that’s when I play my relaxation tape all night long. He has a great, soft, loving type voice and he puts me right to sleep and I STAY that way all night. Thank God for “Larry” – he’s one of my angels. My dear husband who is so supportive and helpful is another one. I, also, don’t have as many nightmares when I’m listening to “Larry.”

    10.) Offer something scary/painful up for someone who might be suffering.
    We Catholics believe that we can help a bad situation (for the living or the deceased) if we do something hard here on earth and “offer it up” for that intention. It doesn’t have to be for ONE thing – it can be for, say, “all the people who are suffering today and have no one to pray for them” so their suffering will go away or lessen. I can offer it up for my parents, who are deceased, that they are with God in heaven. Like yesterday I closed the dishwasher door on my knuckle and it hurt so bad I almost broke into tears. RIght away I decided to “offer up” my pain in order for God to help other people who are suffering. I don’t know – its hard to explain. It made me feel like a good person and, maybe, it did help people

    Today I have to do the prep work for a colonoscopy I’m taking tomorrow and instead of worrying and fretting all day I’m going to offer up my misery for my usual “intentions” which involve praying that my parents are with God, as are my deceased family members and friends, people I have hurt in my lifetime and people who hurt me (that’s a HARD one!) and for all the animals and people who are suffering this day that God will relieve their suffering and give them peace of mind and courage.( I guess its like trying to put a positive “spin” on my misery!)

    11.) When I have to do a “hard” thing like the colonoscopy or something “health-wise” I plan to do something fun afterwards then I just try to think about the “fun” thing and have my mind jump over the “yucky” thing.

    12.) Acupuncture and Chinese herbs help, too.

    Guru, I know this is way too religious for most folks but it helps me. I’m still anxious a LOT but I’m trying to help myself, and, as I said, this stuff works for me.

    Thanks for reading.

    Rory

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