• kourtney

    thank you so much!

  • Sc

    Hi Paul.
    I hope you sometimes look at old comments because id like a fallowup on this. I have anxiety. It had diminished greatly and I was fine for a while. I felt occasional stresses but those feelings are different. I’m trying to reduce my meds to get pregnant as the possible side effects are scary. Since being on half dosage for about a year, anxiety episodes have become more frequent. A few friends told me how acupuncture had helped them relieve tension so I though to give it a try. After 2 needles anxiety resurfaced. The strange feelings terrified me and it’s been 3 days of terrible fear. I keep wondering if the needles messed up my system in a way it will never recover. The rational part of me tells me it’s impossible, but my sensations tell me I need to fix myself. I was arguing with my boyfriend about how I was anxious and felt bad. He was having a bad day too so he told me to try to cure it better. I told him there is no cure only management according to both my psychologist and my physician. He then told me that they must be wrong. He later apologized for his lack of understanding but I still felt I needed to show I was right about the coping part. After writing this 4 years ago, would you still agree that the best cure is to find a way to manage the bad feelings rather than focus on treating them? Is there a cure I’m not aware of that came out during these year? If so I’m really interested. Thanks for not having a characters limit on the comments part. :)

  • http://anxietyguru.net Paul Dooley

    Hi Sc,

    This is a good topic. The answer though isn’t so great. The answer is: It depends. Take me for example, I have no symptoms, no abnormal worry, it’s gone. Then there are those that lessen their anxiety but never get rid of it. And, of course, those that never recover.

    That being said, there is no cure for anxiety, but you can manage and even eliminate abnormal anxiety – see the difference. It’s the abnormal anxiety that is the problem, not anxiety itself.

    So, you can “cure” abnormal anxiety. How you do this will vary, but it is possible.

  • Tony

    Hey there,

    I have been suffering with serious anxiety problems for the last 11 months now. (The reason I’m here is because its got to that point where my mind wanted to look for that “magical cure” and I came accross this blog)my anxiety occors when there is a buildup of adrenaline, there is no way I can stop it and I have I guess come to terms that I will never go back to living how I was. Doctors have given me medication which doesn’t seem to work (proves you right once again). And I have been considering hypnotheropy.I am not the sort to kind of rely on people but I’m really asking what sort of methods can I think about to suppress this even a little. Because ill be honest its making me so depressed because I can barely leave my house. Can you please mail me on some advice on suppressing this please, my address is : wkabuddy@hotmail.co.uk

    Thank you

  • sarah

    Hi
    I felt I had to post again. I’m SC. Just a few months ago, I was a mess. I’m much better now. I can’t expect that the anxiety will go away for ever, but I did succeeed in making it stay for only a short time when it did visit me again. I have not completly stopped my meds yet, but I’m at half of what I was on when I wrote the May part.
    I think the best advice I can give anyone is to let go, stop trying to cure it and let it be there without focussing on it. It is very difficult to do espescially with the physical symptoms and the feeling of impending disaster. But you can do it. I’m not special. I’m emotional and sometimes moody. I’m wired that way. But I do exercise more and added some fish oils and b vitamins to myt diet. It might be placebo, but I do feel better. I feel prety good in fact.
    I think Paul says it best when he end his podcasts “No matter what, you’re going to be ok. “
    Thanks Paul and good luck Tony.

  • jimbu

    I definitely agree with this. There’s no miracle cure because what people are trying to get rid of is already part of them and every single person. The fact they try so hard and fail to find a cure causes them more anxiety due to self-blame. It’s just a message that got lost in translation. Hopefully people understand this. Thank you for sharing this great article.

  • bob jack johnson

    anxiety is so situational for me, and depends entirely on my stress level. lately Ive been having anxiety attacks while in conversation with people…..you want a challenege? try looking someone in the eye while your body pulses full of un-called-for adrenaline…..my god i felt like I was going to have a heart attack, or break down in tears, or explode. Here is the kicker……Im a young electrician, and I took on a large job by myself….full house with a 400 amp service, 20k plus on the quote….There has been a few hiccups (not major) and this being my first major project Its stressing me out like you wouldnt believe…..so when I talk to these people, I seem to get extremely nervous and paniky. It only seems to happen the moment I start thinking about it. Its also extremely ironic…..my only major fear, the trigger to all this anxiety, is the fear of being seen as anxious. I literally have anxiety because I dont want to be seen being anxious or nervous. Maybe there is an underlying reason…i dont know. But rambling about this has actually helped. Also remember…..anxiety is the most common disorder and so so so so so so so many people go through it.

  • Sarah

    I just read a comment I had made here last summer.
    I forgot. I give good advice. I should listen to ”not anxious self” now that I’m not feeling so good.
    I have had a bad relapse in january. I’m still in it. Not as bad but still pretty hard. It’s difficult. But AG helps. And support. And therapy. And even if I don’t like it, drugs.
    For me anyways.