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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 02:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly,

  Aside from all the awesome advice, for me meditating on a daily basis and finding an amazing Naturopath got me off 12 yrs of meds and feeling better than ever. And when you find what works for you, this will feel like a dream. Good Luck</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly,</p>
<p>  Aside from all the awesome advice, for me meditating on a daily basis and finding an amazing Naturopath got me off 12 yrs of meds and feeling better than ever. And when you find what works for you, this will feel like a dream. Good Luck</p>
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		<title>By: Is Finding Your Anxiety Triggers Really That Simple? &#124; ParanoidPear.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Is Finding Your Anxiety Triggers Really That Simple? &#124; ParanoidPear.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 00:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] recently responded to a blog post over at AnxietyGuru.com about how it is important to identify the trigger(s) that cause your anxiety symptom(s).  Kelly [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] recently responded to a blog post over at AnxietyGuru.com about how it is important to identify the trigger(s) that cause your anxiety symptom(s).  Kelly [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Kelly, just start simple. Write a list of all the good things in your life, or of all your positive memories and then visualise them. This is actually a really good trick, though takes practise. You&#039;d be amazed how much good stuff there is there. It can really start to lift your mood. It&#039;s liek Paul always says - do something, even if it&#039;s something small. Which I&#039;m sure you are!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Kelly, just start simple. Write a list of all the good things in your life, or of all your positive memories and then visualise them. This is actually a really good trick, though takes practise. You&#8217;d be amazed how much good stuff there is there. It can really start to lift your mood. It&#8217;s liek Paul always says &#8211; do something, even if it&#8217;s something small. Which I&#8217;m sure you are!</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 07:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Andy.  After years of being debilitated, my attitude has gone from bad to worse.  I can even figure out how to get positive again and I have lost all hope in regards to being ok.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Andy.  After years of being debilitated, my attitude has gone from bad to worse.  I can even figure out how to get positive again and I have lost all hope in regards to being ok.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 21:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Kelly, you just need to keep positive. I know that sounds silly but it&#039;s the first (and hardest!) thing you need to do...which I know is easier said than done. Set yourself some small goals and start from there. And trust me, you&#039;ll be okay!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Kelly, you just need to keep positive. I know that sounds silly but it&#8217;s the first (and hardest!) thing you need to do&#8230;which I know is easier said than done. Set yourself some small goals and start from there. And trust me, you&#8217;ll be okay!</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 17:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jason,
Thanks for your response.  My &quot;triggers&quot; would be childhood separation anxiety issues that follow me today, inability to become independent of my family (i.e. grow up), not having a purpose in life (i.e. no career path), fear of death and intense health issues that have plagued my family since I was young.

I&#039;m not exactly sure how you can work through these triggers as I have spent most of my life with various therapists and come up with nothing.

Now I am in a fully disabled state as a result- no friends, no life.  Can&#039;t eat food cause I can&#039;t afford it!  Nor can I get treatment (although treatment has done nothing for me in the past).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jason,<br />
Thanks for your response.  My &#8220;triggers&#8221; would be childhood separation anxiety issues that follow me today, inability to become independent of my family (i.e. grow up), not having a purpose in life (i.e. no career path), fear of death and intense health issues that have plagued my family since I was young.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not exactly sure how you can work through these triggers as I have spent most of my life with various therapists and come up with nothing.</p>
<p>Now I am in a fully disabled state as a result- no friends, no life.  Can&#8217;t eat food cause I can&#8217;t afford it!  Nor can I get treatment (although treatment has done nothing for me in the past).</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 12:41:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Kelly An important thing to understand is that all symptoms are simply that - symptoms! They are symptoms of a deeper root cause. 

Identifying the triggers that cause your anxiety symptoms aren&#039;t as black and white I have made them seem. Because anxiety is a mixture of both the disorder of the psycho and physio it&#039;s can be much more complex than simply identifying a certain stimulant like caffeine and concluding it is the be all end all of your mismanaged anxiety.

In order to get the right answer you must ask yourself the right questions. You really need to start at the very beginning and work your way to the present moment to find what may be causing this heightened and mismanaged anxiety.

How was the environment you grow up in? Was there constant chaos in your household as a child? What beliefs have you gained through your upbringing...beliefs about money, status, and self? What about elementary school? How was that for you? And high school? Did you have many friends? How were those relationships? If some relationship broke down, why did they? What may have caused them to do so and how did that make you feel? Did you parent express some of the symptoms you are currently experiencing? How was the over all mood in your household? What major events may have happened throughout your lifetime that may have left you feeling different? 

These questions are the tip of the iceberg, but they should give you an idea as to how in depth you really need to look in order to pin point the root cause of your symptoms. Other great questions can be....

What do you think about most often? Are you getting proper amounts of sleep and do you have a set sleep schedule? Do you work night shifts?  What about your diet... what do you eat most of the time? Is it simple sugars, processed foods, foods with lot of chemical fillers like like aspartame and modified corn syrops? Are you overweight for your size and age? If you are how does that make you feel? Do you exercise regularly? Are you consuming enough water for your body to properly function or are you mostly dehydrated ( if your pee is yellow... even a little you need more water, contrary to the belief that pee is suppose to be yellow...what garbage information!).

How is your social life? Do you have a circle of friends? If so what do they think about most? What are their beliefs or values? How was their upbringings? Are they mostly positive or negative and depressing, what do they talk about most often? 

Another area to explore is something know as &quot;status anxiety&quot;. Is what you want to be doing with your life inline with what you are currently doing for work? Are you trying to impress others by trying to be successful but haven&#039;t been able to make it? Do you tend to look at others and use them as a measure of judging yourself? If so how does that make you feel? Are you happy with the place you live at, the car you drive, the things you have or do you desire more or something ewer or better, but can&#039;t seem to get it? 

How are you financially? Do you struggle month to month or is money plentiful and easy for you. If it isn&#039;t how does that make you feel?

I could go on and on.... but as you can tell the process of identifying your triggers is a long, intense process... in which you must go through your life with a fine tooth comb and ask yourself the right questions to find the right answers.

remember... your symptoms are simply symptoms not the cause themselves. Therefore there is something that is out of order )disorder) that is causing them. Finding your triggers may be the hardest thing you ever do, but once you do... everything else falls into place.

Jason</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Kelly An important thing to understand is that all symptoms are simply that &#8211; symptoms! They are symptoms of a deeper root cause. </p>
<p>Identifying the triggers that cause your anxiety symptoms aren&#8217;t as black and white I have made them seem. Because anxiety is a mixture of both the disorder of the psycho and physio it&#8217;s can be much more complex than simply identifying a certain stimulant like caffeine and concluding it is the be all end all of your mismanaged anxiety.</p>
<p>In order to get the right answer you must ask yourself the right questions. You really need to start at the very beginning and work your way to the present moment to find what may be causing this heightened and mismanaged anxiety.</p>
<p>How was the environment you grow up in? Was there constant chaos in your household as a child? What beliefs have you gained through your upbringing&#8230;beliefs about money, status, and self? What about elementary school? How was that for you? And high school? Did you have many friends? How were those relationships? If some relationship broke down, why did they? What may have caused them to do so and how did that make you feel? Did you parent express some of the symptoms you are currently experiencing? How was the over all mood in your household? What major events may have happened throughout your lifetime that may have left you feeling different? </p>
<p>These questions are the tip of the iceberg, but they should give you an idea as to how in depth you really need to look in order to pin point the root cause of your symptoms. Other great questions can be&#8230;.</p>
<p>What do you think about most often? Are you getting proper amounts of sleep and do you have a set sleep schedule? Do you work night shifts?  What about your diet&#8230; what do you eat most of the time? Is it simple sugars, processed foods, foods with lot of chemical fillers like like aspartame and modified corn syrops? Are you overweight for your size and age? If you are how does that make you feel? Do you exercise regularly? Are you consuming enough water for your body to properly function or are you mostly dehydrated ( if your pee is yellow&#8230; even a little you need more water, contrary to the belief that pee is suppose to be yellow&#8230;what garbage information!).</p>
<p>How is your social life? Do you have a circle of friends? If so what do they think about most? What are their beliefs or values? How was their upbringings? Are they mostly positive or negative and depressing, what do they talk about most often? </p>
<p>Another area to explore is something know as &#8220;status anxiety&#8221;. Is what you want to be doing with your life inline with what you are currently doing for work? Are you trying to impress others by trying to be successful but haven&#8217;t been able to make it? Do you tend to look at others and use them as a measure of judging yourself? If so how does that make you feel? Are you happy with the place you live at, the car you drive, the things you have or do you desire more or something ewer or better, but can&#8217;t seem to get it? </p>
<p>How are you financially? Do you struggle month to month or is money plentiful and easy for you. If it isn&#8217;t how does that make you feel?</p>
<p>I could go on and on&#8230;. but as you can tell the process of identifying your triggers is a long, intense process&#8230; in which you must go through your life with a fine tooth comb and ask yourself the right questions to find the right answers.</p>
<p>remember&#8230; your symptoms are simply symptoms not the cause themselves. Therefore there is something that is out of order )disorder) that is causing them. Finding your triggers may be the hardest thing you ever do, but once you do&#8230; everything else falls into place.</p>
<p>Jason</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 06:29:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In regards to Jason&#039;s comment- good advice, but what you if your symptoms have no triggers?  That is my case and it&#039;s pretty hard to crack.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In regards to Jason&#8217;s comment- good advice, but what you if your symptoms have no triggers?  That is my case and it&#8217;s pretty hard to crack.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 06:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Although I know I am not in an emergency situation, my symptoms never seem to &quot;lift&quot; or I can&#039;t wait them out the way you describe.  They are with me 24/7 which makes it very hard for me to even think about crossing a bridge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Although I know I am not in an emergency situation, my symptoms never seem to &#8220;lift&#8221; or I can&#8217;t wait them out the way you describe.  They are with me 24/7 which makes it very hard for me to even think about crossing a bridge.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 21:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Paul, some great advice. Man, I know exactly what you;re talking about though. I realy hate that nagging feeling that something might be up. Usually I get pains in my chest and even though I&#039;m 90 per cent it&#039;s nothing, that lingering 10 drives me crazy. Then it builds and gets out of control. But like you said, just ride it out and it usually passes. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Paul, some great advice. Man, I know exactly what you;re talking about though. I realy hate that nagging feeling that something might be up. Usually I get pains in my chest and even though I&#8217;m 90 per cent it&#8217;s nothing, that lingering 10 drives me crazy. Then it builds and gets out of control. But like you said, just ride it out and it usually passes. <img src='http://ag08.pdfinds.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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